I was at my friends birthday party with my sister. We were all sitting together when an old woman put her hand on my breasts. I asked her to stop and she didnt so i hit her hand, then she placed it on my thigh. So i hit her and ran away. Another one of my guy friends was there and i told him the story, and he handed me a bunch of nails and told me to throw them at her if she tried it again. My grandfather picked me up and when we got to my grandparents house the lady was there and i said mean things to her and went inside. When i got inside my mother who in waking life put me up for adoption was there, she didnt say anything. But my grandmother was there and she made me cookie
Dreams can be highly personal and symbolic, so it's important to remember that any interpretation should be taken with a grain of salt. That being said, here's a possible interpretation for your dream:
The birthday party represents a social gathering or a celebration of some sort in your waking life. Your sister being present suggests a close bond or shared experiences. The old woman who puts her hand on your breasts may symbolize feelings of invasion, violation, or discomfort in a particular situation or relationship. Your response of hitting her hand represents your attempt to establish boundaries and protect yourself.
The old woman's action of placing her hand on your thigh and your subsequent reaction of hitting her may indicate that this unwanted intrusion persists despite your initial attempt to stop it. In turn, your friend supporting you with nails suggests a desire for empowerment and defense against this boundary violation.
When your grandfather picks you up and brings you to your grandparents' house, it can symbolize seeking refuge and safety from the emotional disturbance caused by the old woman's actions. However, her presence there indicates that this issue is still unresolved and continues to affect you.
Encountering your mother, who put you up for adoption, without any verbal communication may imply unspoken emotional connections or unresolved feelings related to your adoption. Your grandmother making you cookies could represent a source of comfort and nurturing in the midst of these emotional complexities.
Overall, this dream may point to unresolved emotional boundaries and past experiences affecting your present life. It could be beneficial to explore any situations or relationships in your waking life where you feel that your personal boundaries are being violated, and to take steps to assert yourself and establish healthier boundaries.